Snails and Orange Juice
A Few Observations about Daily Life in
I suppose I will start this post with an explanation of the title. Based upon my experiences thus far, I do believe I will be returning to
Harassment. During the orientation week, while explaining what we have to look forward to this semester, our academic directors cited only one negative experience that is unavoidable and most irritating – street harassment. Apparently, in this society, it is acceptable for men to call out to women in the streets, or even follow them. Granted, the cliché American construction worker can occasionally be a bother, they couldn’t hold a candle to these Moroccan men. I have seen a man walking in a manner that indicates a determination to reach his destination – until he spots a foreign woman or a woman in less clothing than full cover. At which point, the man turns a full 180 and seems to have no other business than to follow this woman. Because we’re easily identified as foreigners, the girls in our program are particularly victimized. Now, I have personally not experience a moment when I felt threatened, but I have had several occasions where I had to change my course or plans because of the irritation of men following me or trying to get me to speak to them. Some of them go so far as to come up beside us and talk right into our face. The problem here lies in the fact that if we respond, we grant them the permission to continue heckling us. The only advice the program advisors could offer was to ignore them unless they physically touched us, which they will rarely do. Now that I have become comfortable with the city, I find that the harassment is not a huge issue. In fact, a few of my girlfriends and I have made a game to see who gets the most creative responses. These guys will try every language and every catchy phrase they can (although their language skills in general are so limited that they are not quite like American pick-up phrases.) One of my personal favorites was when an older guy, perhaps in his late 60s, passed by Emily and me and responded with “Alhamdillilah” (meaning “praise be to God”) in quite a skeezy voice. Although this does contribute to one of the few frustrations I have with my lack of independence here in
Traffic. In the past three weeks, I’d like to think that I have re-mastered the art of crossing the road. Unlike the States, where we usually wait for both sides to clear completely before making our way across the street, in
Mint Tea. Moroccans love mint tea. And by love, I mean they have it whenever they get an opportunity. Every afternoon, when I come home from school, we have tea. And it’s not your standard hot tea—it’s sweet, sweet, sweet hot mint tea. They like sugar here, which is nice, until you have it constantly every day. When guests come, we have lots of mint tea. When we go to cafes, the most ordered drink is mint tea. When we eat out, the meal ends with mint tea. Throughout the suqs, vendors sell the trappings of tea – several varieties of mints, multi-packs of beautifully decorated tea cups, stacks upon stacks of tea kettles. Although I may get sick of the tea while I am here, I do believe it is one of the habits that I will try to apply to my life at home. Tea after classes? I think so.

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